I spoke with a dear friend today and they
gave me unexpected news—they have cancer—melanoma. Not one I would ever expect to develop
melanoma, the news came as a shock. Not
young, but not old in my eyes, the course of their life has changed. Tests, consultations, possibly more surgery,
and a course of treatment are how their days now look—not their plan by a long
shot.
As I walked and prayed this morning, it
occurred to me how many are facing or have faced the unexpected. We have a plan and it seems a good plan for
our lives and BAM—the unexpected changes our course.
My dad died when I was 14, and he was only
45. I never expected to lose him so early. I often wonder how different my life would
have looked had this unexpected never occurred.
His death left a void which I eventually tried to fill in destructive
ways. This unexpected was life changing
for me.
My marriage ended---I never expected that
to happen. For after all, do any of us
say, “I Do,” with the intention of it ending in divorce? No, we take those words, “Till death do you
part,” literally, and never dream it will be different. It has taken a long time to process this unexpected
in my life. I expected to possibly be
alone one day, but it was unexpected how it happened.
Dear Friends have lost their children, dear
friends have lost their mates, and dear friends have lost their
grandchildren. Their passing into the
world to come, was unexpected. None of
us sit around thinking about the loss of those we hold dear.
Some of life’s unexpected are
blessings. A few of my precious grands
were unexpected. We all quickly moved
from the shock of the unexpected to the blessing of our expectations as the day
neared for their birth.
The “Rule for Life” I came away with while
praying and thinking-
EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED
If you make it through this life and never
experience the unexpected, you are living in a dream world. The unexpected is going to occur—all kinds of
unexpected occurrences will pepper your life’s path.
How you walk forward after the unexpected
is what is important. My friend told me,
“God is still in charge”. YES HE
IS! And nothing ever happens without
passing through His hands. Remember to
grab on—hold tightly to Him—and live through faith when those unexpected
occur. God is sovereign and He is not
surprised by cancer, death, illness, loss of job, fall of the stock market, or
any other catastrophe in man’s eye. All
is for His good purpose—even the unexpected.
I have no answers to what possible good can come from many of the
unexpected. I do have faith He is
present by my side—even in the midst of the unexpected—He loves me beyond my
wildest dream. He is present in the
unexpected.
God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, Even though the earth be removed, And though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;
Psalm 46:1-2
Ohhhhhhhhh how very true, Lulu. Thank you for a very beautiful heartwarming post. Thank you for being honest, friend. Blessings
ReplyDeleteBless you, Linda , for I know you understand the unexpected!
DeletePraying!
The unexpected should be the expected, it happens so frequently. I never expected to live under a Marxist regime, but that's what we now have. As always, good lessons.
ReplyDeleteWe grow from all these occurrences & hopefully learn!
DeleteI feel your shock, your pain, Lulu. Both my mom and my sister have battled melanoma ... one a rare form, the other a stage 4 diagnosis. I understand. Truly.
ReplyDeleteI'm praying for you and your friend right now. May this Sabbath lend you solace and comfort.
And we Trusr in Him!
DeleteThank you , Friend
He is good . . .
ReplyDeleteEnough said, Friend!
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