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SUMMER SESSION #3- ECHOES OR ANSWERS

 I came into this world easily amused.  We discussed recently in Small Group the need to eliminate distractions when communing with God.  Because I enjoy the small but magnificent things of the world, they catch my eye rather easily.  I laughed that night because I was facing the window that had several birdfeeders in front of it.  I am certain I missed some of the discussion watching the birds come for their late evening meal.  How could you not stare at their charm and beauty?




I spent many a summer evening calling to this illusive night bird whose name closely resembles his call.   Sadly I have not heard a Bobwhite quail but a few times in my adult life.  I discovered while researching they are on a steep decline and endangered.  How much I enjoyed seeing how close I could lure the  bird.  Perhaps I should be ashamed since the whistle was all about finding a mate.  I could sit for long stretches of time answering his call.  As I said, I am easily amused.

If you have ever heard your echo, you understand how there might be some confusion.  Am I hearing my own voice echoing or am I being answered when calling the Bobwhite by the Real McCoy?  What I heard sounded exactly like what I had just said.

As we commune with God, are we eliminating the distractions?  Are we certain we are hearing His voice?  OR could we be hearing the echo of our own voice? Sit still and consider and perhaps listen for an answer.

"Call to me and I will answer you,

and will tell you great and hidden things

that you have not known."

Jeremiah 33:3

ANSWERS

 I enjoy a good riddle -   What came first the chicken or the egg?

What is white when its dirty?

What can be touched but can't be seen?

What room can no on enter?

Which came first the question or the answer?



The plague of the middle child is always needing to find an answer for  problems.  You can voice a problem to me, quite off-handedly, and never think another thought about it.  I, on the other hand, will spend the next few hours trying to come up with an answer to solve your problem.  Here is a question -

Are ALL middle children problem solvers?





I am also a peace maker.  Do NOT want any turmoil or strife in the world.  If you are at odds with someone, I want to find an answer to solve this unrest.




This is a lot to take on!  What I fail to recognize is you may need to voice the problem or strife in your life and are not looking for a solution from me.  I call this the need to bounce.  One of my strategies for solving problems and ending strife is to bounce what is going on off a trusted friend.  My daughter was in college before I learned this from hundreds of miles away.  We spoke often those early years of college.  I was always trying to solve her problems long distance.  She finally told me one day, "Mom, I just need you to listen, not solve my problem."  THERE YOU GO!


SO~ could it be that God allows us to communicate with Him through prayer with the intent of letting us bounce our problems off Him?  Could it be that we really KNOW the answer to the problem or the unrest and the answer is actually in our hands?  Could it be we are pleading for a miracle when the real miracle will be recognizing our part in the problem or strife?  I am so thankful God is not only a good listener, but patient beyond any concept I could possibly have of what patience looks like.  Could it be that God is letting me bounce my problems and disagreements off Him and waiting for me to recognize how I might solve the problem or make peace?  Answers--I am always looking for answers, but sometimes I am the answer.


"So then let us pursue what makes for peace

and for mutual upbuilding."

Romans  14:19